Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Mama On: Friendship
"Be the friend you want to have."
I think I've already said that I am an only child. So was my mother, and that leads me to wonder if being an only child is an intrinsic factor contributing to my onset of Mamaknology...
I am so glad that I was taught to select my friends carefully. I am happy to say that I have friends that I have known and loved for most of my life and am still in touch with. I am even more happy that I have friends who treat me the way that they want to be treated. My friends, both male and female, over the years have become my siblings. They have become my family, and with the loss of my parents, I treasure them greatly.
The Mamaknologist in me knows that my mother was right, we need friends who will stand with us for more than the next big sale at Macy's. We need friends who will do more than hang out with us at the club -- in fact, we need friends who will tell us to stay the heck OUT of the clubs sometimes. We need friends who are smarter than we are about ourselves sometimes -- whether we want to admit it or not. We need friends who are too smart to not love us when we forget that we are worthy of love. We simply need the kind of friends who want to be our friends.
And if we are lucky enough to have those kinds of friends, don't they deserve more than our raggedy and thoughtless baggage?
My vote is that they do. So... how about a random act of love for those friends. This may be the day to send flowers, bake some cookies, make a phone call, or even fall on your knees and offer a sincere and heartfelt prayer for that exceptional friend of yours. How about making this the day that you are the friend you'd like to have?
I'm just saying...